How we attract negative relationships

In the midst of feeling extreme negative emtion or in some situation they are living, they think that the separation from this person will solve the majority of their problems. But most people find little or no improvement in the way they feel about their ex-partner after the divorce. In fact, most work so hard at justifying why the divorce was a good idea, that they hold themselves in vibrational alignment with all those things about the relationship that they did not want. So now, even though they are not living in the same space, the other‘s uncomfortable presence remains a daily occurrence, even when they do not actually see one another or interact face to face. And because their vibration did not change, even though the physical details of their lives together did change, their next relationship is fraught with the same uncomfortable issues as was the last. Remember that this relationship, uncomfortable as it was, has caused you to evolve, and your InnerBeing stands right now as the vibrational expression of that expanded being. If you can find good feeling thoughts and train yourself to practise into vibrational alignment with those thoughts, you can benefit from the experience. But only in finding and maintaining better feeling thoughts can you close that gap and actually be the expanded being that your life has caused you to become. :-Abraham Hicks